Archive-name: Miscell/erosia06.txt
Archive-author: David P. Thomas
Archive-title: Erosian Theory and Practice
Code of Practice
Sexual Practices & Guidelines
Based on the research to date, I have compiled a list of
sexual practices which in no way is complete. However, I
have come across a few practices which will not be
accepted withing the Code of Practice for Erosians, and I
will detail the reasons for their failure to be included.
Pedophilia - recognized as committing sexual practices
with a minor, or allowing such practices to be committed,
pedophilia is outlawed by Erosian Code of Conduct #1,2,4
and is recognized as one of the most foul and damaging of
all sex crimes.
Necrophilia - Disallowed because the dead cannot consent.
Scat - Definition (Sexual fulfillment by killing at the
point of orgasm). One of the most heinious of all crimes,
this act is in violation of all Erosians stand for.
Beastiality - Animals cannot consent to sexual practices.
Rape - The most damaging form of forced sexuality.
Reprehensible and unforgivable. Erosians must believe in
the freedom of sexuality and that which is taken and not
given is useless.
There may be additions to this list as time progresses,
and I am doing my utmost to take into consideration all
practices and their ramifications.
Below, are some thoughts and theories behind some of the
activities listed in the Code of Practice.
A,B - Anal sex has come into the limelight in the last 5
or so years, with the advent of the gay revolution. One
point must be made early on about anal sex, and that
regards hygene and disease prevention. Genital to anal sex
can and should be enjoyed if desired, but either the giver
should utilize a condom, or if that is unacceptable, care
should be take to cleanse before and afterward. Care
should also be taken to lubricate the anus prior to entry,
as anal tears are painful and prone to infection. Anal sex
can be a delightful way for a woman to fulfill a fantasy
of being reversed with her partner, and men, homosexual or
not can find a huge degree of pleasure in anal
stimulation. Anal stimulation also can be practiced as a
masturbatory act, and may allow the Erosian a chance to
experiment as to his or her likes and dislikes regarding
this alternative sex act.
C,D,I,J - Water Sports and Enemas are very closely related
in the scheme of sexual classification. Water sports can
include any sexual activity involving urination. Also
called Golden Showers, or Golden Rain, water sports
involve one party urinating on another which heightens the
sexual excitement. The location of the urination varies,
and some receivers prefer the genitals, the chest, the
stomach, the face or even the mouth as the target. Water
sports evolve on many levels, some relating to
dominant/submissive fantasies in which one person derives
pleasure from dominating the other with the act of
urination, to other levels where it is the actual act of
urinating that elicits pleasure. Mutual water sports are
not unusual where both parties are involved in giving and
receiving the urination. Water sports also project as far
as the drinking and swallowing of urine (in some countries
this is practiced daily for 'health' measures) direct for
the giver.
Enemas involve the injection or introduction of liquids
into the anus and rectum. Initially designed for cleansing
and clearing the rectum of matter, enemas can play a large
role in alternative sexuality. The person highly involved
in anal sex will take an interest in enemas as a way to
clean the rectum prior to anal intercourse. At the same
time, it should be noted that some people find the act of
enema giving and receiving pleasurable in itself. Related
both to water sports and to anal sex, enemas can be seen
as a addition to the sexual world.
Also along the same lines lies the topic of douching. Long
established as a way to clean the vagina before sex, after
sex, and after the monthly period, douching for the
aqua-erotic may prove to be stimulating as a item in
itself.
As bizarre as these different aquatic pastimes may seem,
they are accepted and understood forms of sexual
involvement. Many people might feel guilt or shame for
fantasizing or involving themselves in these activities,
but Erosian Theory puts an end to the shame. If it feels
good and doesn't hurt anyone, do it! If it feels good, do
it again! Your sexuality is your own; you determine the
limitations. Experiment! How are you going to be aware if
the above is pleasurable, unless you try it?
E,F,G,H - S & M :These initals, common in the sexual
world, stand for Sadism/Masochism. Derived from two men's
names (Marquis De Sade & Leopold van Sacher Masoch) these
terms apply to the getting of sexual pleasure via the
receiving or giving of pain. A sadist receives his/her
pleasure from inflicting pain upon a person, usually in
the form of whippings, spankings, heated objects, genital
devices, etc. The masochist is the person who receives
pleasure from the receipt of this pain. The secret to the
enjoyment of receiving pain lies in finding the borderline
between pain and pleasure in the physical areas of the
body. Different individuals will have different thresholds
of pain. The successful sadist will be able to find these
levels and play upon them. The true successful
relationship in this course of study is that of a true
sadist and a true masochist.
B & D: These initials stand for bondage and domination.
Very similar in practice to S&M, bondage and domination
relies on a successful mix of master and slave to bring
true satisfaction to the relationship. In this field of
study, pleasure is derived from restraining, or binding
the subject (slave) with any number of devices and
"forcing" him/her to pleasure his "master/mistress". S&M
may well play an important part in the domination, and
humiliation, combined with other sexual acts may be
included in this alternate lifestyle category. At all
times, Erosians must remember to respect limits set forth
by both partners prior to engaging in sexual S&M or B&D.
K - Fetishist: This is a broad based, user specifics
defined term to correlate specific overbearing detailed
sexual interests. A fetish is defined as any non-sexual
object that excites sexual desire. Examples of fetishism
include: foot fetishes, leather, rubber, oil, etc.
L - Role Reversal : This is defined for our uses as a
person of one gender acting and participating in sexual
encounter in the role of the opposite sex. Examples of
this include: A woman anally stimulating her male partner
with a strap on dildo. A man performing fellatio on a
false cock provided by his female partner. Role reversal
may extend to whatever level is agreed upon by the two
parties. Some role reversal last for the length of the sex
act, others may extend into daily life. Cross dressing may
enhance the act of role reversal.
M, N - Porn Users/Performers: This category refers to the
Erosian with an interest in collection, watching/reading
of pornography as well as the Erosian who enjoys posing
for pictures or starring in video fulms of sexual
activity.
The pornography user should take an interest in building
and maintaining a collection of pornography, as well as
meeting and trading films, books, videos with others of
similar interests.
The pornography performer takes interest in a very
different way. He/she, like the user, enjoys viewing adult
materials, however he/she enjoys posing/acting for the
camera in a sexual manner. Most Erosians involved will
participate in home video/pictures only, while some will
actually get involved in the adult motion picture
business. Erosian Theory heartily endorses this activity,
as it glorifies the physical self, the body and the
natural acts of the Erosian. This form of sharing the
sexual pleasures of one Erosian with those of many through
repeated viewings is a wonderful way to spread the warmth
of sexuality. Two rules must be strongly adhered to when
engaging in pornographic performances. One: no children
(minors) must be present or involved in any way. Two: All
parties must be in agreement as to the content, action,
and distribution of the material.
O,P - Voyerism/Exhibitionism: This form of sexuality is
based on the desire to watch a sexual act performed, or to
be watched as one performs a sex act. Voyerism may entail
watching a sex act when the performing party(s) is not
aware. Ethics not withstanding this is technically against
Erosian policy, as all parties are not consenting.
However, as long as no federal, state, county or municipal
laws are broken to engage in voyerism, exception may be
made in this case. Exhibitionism or the performance of sex
or the exposure of one's genitals for sexual titillation
is entirely acceptable, and a wonderful way to express
desire or to reach a large number of people sexually. Care
however, should be taken to insure that you are not
placing yourself in any danger legally or physically, as
there are unstable, non-Erosians who do not follow a code
of conduct regarding sex.
Q - Racially Motivated S (or RMS): This is sexual
excitement due to the racial origin of one's partner or
the subject of sexual material. Usually race will refer to
the major breakup of the Earth's races, however this can
further be defined as specific nationalities. For general
purposes, I have included a general list of the world's
major races. Please feel free to inform the High Temple of
Eros, should you find other that have been excluded.
1. Negro (African/American)
2. White (of Anglo/Saxon origin)
3. Hispanic (of Latin origin)
4. Orientals (of Indo-Chinese origin)
5. Europeans (any European sub-cultures)
6. Asian/Indians (any Asian/Indian sub-cultures)
7. Other (Please report to HTE)
These are the current categories for Erosian inclusion,
but as stated before this list is far from complete.
The Code is the basis for study within the Erosian
Community. Students, as well as initiates, must choose at
least one course of study from the above to persue. The
basis for this knowlede is it's potential use for
enjoyment and teaching to others.
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